All women will have their own ambitions, dreams, goals about their career etc. before marriage. And, in spite of additional responsibilities, they are able to manage even after marriage till the time they become mothers. But once a child is born, they give up and even forget all their ambitions and dreams, the child becomes their first priority. If the child becomes sick, they would sit by it throughout, pushing all other things to the backseat. But there are some women who start going for part-time jobs once the child starts going to school. And, many, who cannot afford to leave their job, entrust the child to their in-laws or leave it at a crèche. But they are mentally uncomfortable, worrying about the child in between their work.

If the woman is not working and is a full-time homemaker, her children would expect her to cook different dishes for them and their expectations grow along with them. But, it is always good for the woman and her family to take up some job, part-time or full-time suiting their circumstances. The woman can get the mental satisfaction that she is also doing some useful work and earning. This feeling will give her immense satisfaction and depression could be avoided. Fifty percent of the population comprises women. If this big chunk of human resources is wasted, it would mean a huge loss to the growth of the nation. Various fields including business, arts, education, media and social service require the valuable services of women. When a woman reaches old age, she could get a sense of fulfillment when she recalls her past life in which she had been a good homemaker as well as an earning member. There’s a saying ‘Idle mind is devil’s workshop’. If all the time is left for ourselves without any use, the human tendency is to indulge in gossip and ponder over even small things again and again till they get blown up beyond limits. This would only pave the way for aggravating the feelings and situations that are already bitter. For those women who are strictly homemakers, they’ll have to do more physical work and less brain work. If they take up some job, unnecessary thoughts, feelings and gossip can be avoided. Also, the time will be spent on useful work. The working women become more knowledgeable and informed due to their exposure to the outside world. They become broad-minded and are able to bring up their children with updated information. And, they get an identity of their own that adds to the respect of her family.

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