AWhen we learn a new game or a new skill like car-driving, we are bound to commit mistakes initially. But we don’t give up our efforts and as time passes by, we become more and more efficient, eventually becoming fully equipped and capable to face the challenges. This attitude would help a lot in marriage too if we really give a thought to it. Success is assured if we’ve confidence and real involvement in any endeavor.
In marriage, when two strangers unite in wedlock and start living under the same roof, all sorts of feelings including doubts, fears, hesitation and expectations are bound to arise. During this period, our behavior will be dictated and controlled by our emotions. But, if we develop good patience, love, trust etc. success will fall at our lap sooner or later. The newly married woman would harbor doubts as to whether her husband and his relatives are genuine people. Before marriage she would have enjoyed full freedom in expressing her feelings without being mistaken by her parents. But, in her husband’s house she has got to be careful while talking to her in-laws as otherwise she would be inviting an inimical ambience. The newly-wed woman will be confused by the different advices and strategies that she has received from the mouth of her parents, friends and relatives. The mega serials telecast on the television portray marriage as an institution loaded only with sorrow, hatred, egotism etc. These serials would also have their own impact on the working of the mind of the woman.
The husband expects his wife to be his good friend, at the same time not hindering his freedom. He would be ridiculed by his friends if he changes his habit of spending a few hours with them after office hours for the sake of his wife who would expect him to return home straight from the office. If he has drinking habit, it will also pose a serious problem. He cannot give up alcohol overnight, but if he drinks it would mean hell at home. If he lives in a joint family, then, he’ll have the additional responsibility of acting as a mediator between his wife and the other female members of his family in the event of problems arising amongst them.
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