The man, who attends a meeting in Dubai, is in London the same evening to attend another meeting! The wife returns to Chennai after participating in a seminar in America! Both meet at the Frankfurt airport during the stop-over! Back then, the number of people working on shift used to be much less. But today, due to their dealings with the Western countries, more people work at night-shift. In those days, elders didn’t have tension in bringing up children, but today, the children are busy attending coaching classes to develop their individual skills apart from attending school and college. Today, awareness on things required for a successful life has become indispensible. If the parents fail to impact the children positively, then, there’s the risk of the negative things pervading the outside world impacting the children dragging them towards a perilous path.

In this changed scenario, it is imperative to bring in certain changes to suit the situation in which marriage has undergone innumerable changes. Many good things are to be brought in. Yuvan, a present-day youth was searching for a ‘perfect’ match for him. His friend laughed at him telling that he would never get one. The friends met after a gap of few years. The friend asked Yuvan whether he got a ‘perfect’ match. When Yuvan replied in the negative, the friend told him that it was only expected. At this Yuvan said that he spotted a perfect girl but as she also wanted a perfect man the alliance couldn’t be materialized! This holds good to both the men and the women. Nobody can get a perfect match. We don’t look for perfect parents or siblings. And, we don’t disown them even if we are not able to get along well with them. We get used to them, love them and learn to be happy too with them! Husband-wife relationship is more special than these relationships. If anybody says that problems won’t arise in this relationship, please do not believe. But, please believe that you can live together happily in spite of problems.

I’ve grown more mature learning many things in the twenty years of my marriage. I had many moments of happiness; at the same time, there had been occasions when I had fallen but every time I fell, I stood up again. And, I had been careful not to repeat the mistakes. I’ll share with you readers my views on whether it is in our hands to have a good marriage, what is our role in this endeavor etc. Cinema teaches the basics of love. We’ll deal with the basics of marriage in this series. ‘Success formula’ will be the same in both the things - ‘Both should do everything to make the marriage work’. We’ll see how to achieve this.

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